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Post by eddie on Mon May 27, 2019 11:14 pm

After getting all dressed up, walking down the aisle and meeting the man she loved at the altar, one woman's life suddenly fell apart.

And it was all because of five little words.

The unnamed woman was expecting to hear just two, that would change everything - I do.

Instead the man she had given her heart to decided to rip it out of her chest in front of her entire family and all their friends and crush it into a million pieces.

Writing anonymously on Love What Matters, the bride explains how on her wedding day, her partner decided he couldn't go through with it.

Moments before he'd been smiling and gazing lovingly at her, then he opened his mouth and said: "I just can't do it".

The woman expected to hear something more from the man she was going to marry, but when she returned home, all traces of him were gone.

After a few days, he decided to text the bride's sister, explaining that he wanted to be happy and the relationship wasn't right.

It turned out that he had already moved on with someone else - as the woman soon found out when he changed his relationship status on Facebook .

Two years on from the fateful day, she still doesn't fully understand why he decided to end things as they were about to exchange vows, but what really breaks her heart is that the pair shared a son, and he also walked out on him.

She added: "I know my heart will mend itself someway, somehow. But can a child ever stop mourning the loss of their father?

"I fear that one day, somehow, the runaway will run into him. Or worse, he will look for him. That he'll try to take away my baby, all I have left."


https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/weird-news/five-gut-wrenching-words-no-16203542

What a nasty piece of work. He must have known he didn’t love her and to walk out on her on their wedding day, and to leave his son.....well, I wouldn’t consider him a catch.
His new love had better watch out.

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Post by Original Quill on Mon May 27, 2019 11:24 pm

Did he actually leave the son? Otherwise it's just an affair that didn't work.

I had a friend who had a daughter (about 2-years at the time), and tho he didn't want to marry the mother, he took the daughter everywhere. She was adorable.

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Post by eddie on Mon May 27, 2019 11:30 pm

Yes Quill, she says he hasn’t seen his son.

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Post by Original Quill on Mon May 27, 2019 11:38 pm

eddie wrote:Yes Quill, she says he hasn’t seen his son.

That's the real crime here. A child doesn't know what happened, nor what he did to deserve it.

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Post by eddie on Tue May 28, 2019 12:03 am

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eddie wrote:Yes Quill, she says he hasn’t seen his son.

That's the real crime here.  A child doesn't know what happened, nor what he did to deserve it.

Yes and the fact that the guy was too cowardly to cancel the wedding, deciding instead, to humiliate the mother of his child and his fiancé.

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Post by Syl on Tue May 28, 2019 1:48 am

What an arshole.....one day she will realise she is better off without him.

Years ago I had a lovely friend who was getting married . We were driving her bridegroom to the church and he suddenly told us to stop the car he wasn't going through with the wedding. She was waiting at the church, it was a big white wedding, all the guests were there. We pulled over and thinking he was just suffering from nerves persuaded him in no uncertain terms that he had to go through with it..
He did....and he gave my friend 2 years of hell before he walked out on her.

We should have let him run off that day, it would have saved her from two miscarriages and a load of heartbreak.

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Post by Cass on Tue May 28, 2019 3:30 am

She had a lucky escape. The fact that he already had someone new is just more proof along with the fact he abandoned his child. A real man (or woman) would own up and face the music instead of heaping yet more humiliation and heartbreak on their partner and child.

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Post by Original Quill on Tue May 28, 2019 4:33 am

eddie wrote:
Original Quill wrote:

That's the real crime here.  A child doesn't know what happened, nor what he did to deserve it.

Yes and the fact that the guy was too cowardly to cancel the wedding, deciding instead, to humiliate the mother of his child and his fiancé.

Yes, that was kind of rude.  But it's still just an affair gone bad, except for the kid.

Remember, it happened in Four Weddings and a Funeral, with Hugh Grant?  That was a comedy.

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Post by eddie on Tue May 28, 2019 8:30 pm

Original Quill wrote:
eddie wrote:
Original Quill wrote:

That's the real crime here.  A child doesn't know what happened, nor what he did to deserve it.

Yes and the fact that the guy was too cowardly to cancel the wedding, deciding instead, to humiliate the mother of his child and his fiancé.

Yes, that was kind of rude.  But it's still just an affair gone bad, except for the kid.

Remember, it happened in Four Weddings and a Funeral, with Hugh Grant?  That was a comedy.

Firstly, that was a film this is real life
Secondly, the film sucked (from what I saw, had to turn it off due to the non-laughter of the “comedy”)
Thirdly, just because it’s in a film doesn’t make it okay.

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Post by Original Quill on Wed May 29, 2019 4:15 pm

eddie wrote:
Original Quill wrote:

Yes, that was kind of rude.  But it's still just an affair gone bad, except for the kid.

Remember, it happened in Four Weddings and a Funeral, with Hugh Grant?  That was a comedy.

Firstly, that was a film this is real life

It was an immensely popular film, in which people enjoyed the plot twists.

eds wrote:Secondly, the film sucked (from what I saw, had to turn it off due to the non-laughter of the “comedy”)

To each his/her own.

eds wrote:Thirdly, just because it’s in a film doesn’t make it okay.

I think you've missed the point. It's the popularity of the film that validates the situation within the plot. People so enjoyed the idea that there is now a spin-off TV show that emulates the plot.

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Post by gelico on Wed May 29, 2019 5:30 pm

''I've been shagging your brother''??

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Post by Syl on Wed May 29, 2019 5:38 pm

gelico wrote:''I've been shagging your brother''??

Even worse....Mother. pale

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Post by Original Quill on Wed May 29, 2019 5:39 pm

gelico wrote:''I've been shagging your brother''??

Got any film you could share? Razz

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Post by gelico on Wed May 29, 2019 5:45 pm

Syl wrote:
gelico wrote:''I've been shagging your brother''??

Even worse....Mother. pale


well, i was contemplating grandad but felt it might be going a bit far Shocked

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Post by gelico on Wed May 29, 2019 5:47 pm

Original Quill wrote:
gelico wrote:''I've been shagging your brother''??

Got any film you could share? Razz


no,not for sharing

Cool

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Post by Cass on Fri May 31, 2019 3:33 am

gelico wrote:
Original Quill wrote:

Got any film you could share? Razz


no,not for sharing

Cool

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