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Post by Syl on Tue Feb 06, 2018 1:13 am

Here are some of the ways these people do it, lots more on the link if you need any tips. Cool
Do you have any little thoughtful ways you show your parner you care, or....dont you bother ??

"My husband plans date nights and surprises me. He organizes the sitter and picks a restaurant he knows I like. Surprising and planning is the best gift of all."

"My wife is always supportive and proud of me. When I started my business, it was going to be very hard on us financially and emotionally, but she always believed in me/us and supported me/us from day one—and she's still doing it today. She keeps me motivated and always brings out the best in me."

"I'm not much for gifts, and my husband is always leaving me Post-It 'love notes' all over the house, but what really gets my heart racing is when he does the laundry—washed, dried, folded and put away. It's like how when someone else makes you a sandwich and it just tastes better; well, when he does laundry, the smell, the folding, the feel, everything seems better."


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Post by Cass on Tue Feb 06, 2018 1:42 am

I don’t kill him when he doesn’t pick up his dirty laundry, when he leaves the toilet seat up, when he puts dirty dishes in the sink instead of the dishwasher which he is standing right next too, when he wakes me up by his snoring, when he farts in bed, when he talks to me too loudly in the morning before I’m fully awake etc...

It’s the little things that count Laughing

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Post by Syl on Tue Feb 06, 2018 1:51 am

Cass wrote:I don’t kill him when he doesn’t pick up his dirty laundry, when he leaves the toilet seat up, when he puts dirty dishes in the sink instead of the dishwasher which he is standing right next too, when he wakes me up by his snoring, when he farts in bed, when he talks to me too loudly in the morning before I’m fully awake etc...

It’s the little things that count Laughing

lol!
You have made me feel better now, because I couldn't pinpoint anything I actually do that might be considered thoughtful....but then I don't kill him either for doing any, all and more of the above.

I think OH is more romantic than I am...and probably more thoughtful in little ways, but like you, I do the mundane stuff that seems to always be taken for granted. Rolling Eyes

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Post by Cass on Tue Feb 06, 2018 1:59 am

Syl wrote:
Cass wrote:I don’t kill him when he doesn’t pick up his dirty laundry, when he leaves the toilet seat up, when he puts dirty dishes in the sink instead of the dishwasher which he is standing right next too, when he wakes me up by his snoring, when he farts in bed, when he talks to me too loudly in the morning before I’m fully awake etc...

It’s the little things that count Laughing

lol!
You have made me feel better now, because I couldn't pinpoint anything I actually do that might be considered thoughtful....but then I don't kill him either for doing any, all and more of the above.

I think OH is more romantic than I am...and probably more thoughtful in little ways, but like you, I do the mundane stuff that seems to always be taken for granted. Rolling Eyes

lol!

I think I am more romantic but then I’ve never been one for poetry, long gushing letters or sickly sweet cards.

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Post by Syl on Tue Feb 06, 2018 7:02 am

Me neither Cass.
Oddly, I have made some beautifully romantic cards for others to buy....but apart from making them by hand for my mum when she was alive, I tended to buy for everyone elses, including my OH. Embarassed

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Post by Maddog on Tue Feb 06, 2018 7:06 am

I have no freaking clue. Is this a trick question? tongue

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Post by Syl on Tue Feb 06, 2018 7:08 am

Maddog wrote:I have no freaking clue. Is this a trick question? tongue
Haha...no, click on the link it will give you some inspiration, and just in time for Valentines day too. I love you

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Post by Maddog on Tue Feb 06, 2018 7:12 am

Syl wrote:
Maddog wrote:I have no freaking clue. Is this a trick question? tongue
Haha...no, click on the link it will give you some inspiration, and just in time for Valentines day too. I love you

Well, the Albanian princess appears to have grown weary of me. I'm going to given women a break until at least after Valentines day.

I may incorporate some of those ideas on my next romantic endeavor.

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Post by Original Quill on Tue Feb 06, 2018 11:20 am

Cass wrote:I don’t kill him when he doesn’t pick up his dirty laundry, when he leaves the toilet seat up, when he puts dirty dishes in the sink instead of the dishwasher which he is standing right next too, when he wakes me up by his snoring, when he farts in bed, when he talks to me too loudly in the morning before I’m fully awake etc...

It’s the little things that count Laughing

Farting in bed is what every libertarian really wants. Forget the money. Forget the power. The good life is about turning over in your sleep, and hanging one just before you doze back into neverland. Laughing

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Post by Maddog on Tue Feb 06, 2018 11:22 am

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Cass wrote:I don’t kill him when he doesn’t pick up his dirty laundry, when he leaves the toilet seat up, when he puts dirty dishes in the sink instead of the dishwasher which he is standing right next too, when he wakes me up by his snoring, when he farts in bed, when he talks to me too loudly in the morning before I’m fully awake etc...

It’s the little things that count Laughing

Farting in bed is what every libertarian really wants.  Forget the money.  Forget the power.  The good life is about turning over in your sleep, and hanging one just before you doze back into neverland.  Laughing

How many libertarians have you been in bed with?

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Post by Original Quill on Tue Feb 06, 2018 11:29 am

Maddog wrote:
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Farting in bed is what every libertarian really wants.  Forget the money.  Forget the power.  The good life is about turning over in your sleep, and hanging one just before you doze back into neverland.  Laughing

How many libertarians have you been in bed with?  

Nary a one. I'm particular. But I married two socialists.

Still, I can't imagine a more libertarian act than farting in bed. Wink

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Post by Maddog on Tue Feb 06, 2018 12:24 pm

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How many libertarians have you been in bed with?  

Nary a one.  I'm particular.  But I married two socialists.

Still, I can't imagine a more libertarian act than farting in bed.  Wink

Then you have no idea what libertarians do in bed. Wink

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Post by Syl on Tue Feb 06, 2018 9:08 pm

Odd how out of all the romantic gestures quoted...the fating in bed is what you men hone in on. Razz

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Post by Maddog on Tue Feb 06, 2018 11:28 pm

Syl wrote:Odd how out of all the romantic gestures quoted...the fating in bed is what you men hone in on. Razz


I honed in on Quills bedroom activities with libertarians. But I'm weird. Maybe that's why I'm single?

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Post by eddie on Tue Feb 06, 2018 11:56 pm

Giving a man the blowjob of his life and expecting nothing back - a real sensual act of love.
Also, little messages throughout the day and song lyrics and just little gentle touches to show you care for them, making time to do some really fun stuff together, allowing them to be the first person you turn to when things are shitty for you.
Never wanting them to change because you fell in love with them, not a version you created.
Never forgetting how and why you fell in love. Very important, I think.

I can think of loads becasue I’m quite creative like that but some things are private and kept just for me and my partner... Cool

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Post by Original Quill on Wed Feb 07, 2018 12:20 am

Maddog wrote:
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Nary a one.  I'm particular.  But I married two socialists.

Still, I can't imagine a more libertarian act than farting in bed.  Wink

Then you have no idea what libertarians do in bed.  Wink

Follow the motive: a libertarian wants to expel what he considers, for him, unpleasant and unnecessary. And he doesn't give a shit whose world he spoils when doing so.

It's a logical conclusion. Cool


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Then you have no idea what libertarians do in bed.  Wink

Follow the motive: a libertarian wants to expel what he considers, for him, unpleasant and unnecessary.  And he doesn't give a shit whose world he spoils when doing so.

It's a logical conclusion.   Cool


My farts would violate the NAP, so you're wrong again. Wink

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eddie wrote:Giving a man the blowjob of his life and expecting nothing back - a real sensual act of love.

Um...s'pose you you like giving back?

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Post by Cass on Wed Feb 07, 2018 12:34 am

Maddog wrote:
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Haha...no, click on the link it will give you some inspiration, and just in time for Valentines day too. I love you

Well, the Albanian princess appears to have grown weary of me. I'm going to given women a break until at least after Valentines day.

I may incorporate some of those ideas on my next romantic endeavor.    

Sorry to hear that Aggie. Maybe she was secretly a Baylor or LSU fan so it’s for the best. Chin up old chap. X

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Post by Maddog on Wed Feb 07, 2018 12:38 am

Cass wrote:
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Well, the Albanian princess appears to have grown weary of me. I'm going to given women a break until at least after Valentines day.

I may incorporate some of those ideas on my next romantic endeavor.    

Sorry to hear that Aggie. Maybe she was secretly a Baylor or LSU fan so it’s for the best. Chin up old chap. X

She wasn't much of a college football fan. She was a Giants fan. I even got her NY Giants socks for Christmas. If that's not a sign of my dedication, I don't know what is.

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Post by Cass on Wed Feb 07, 2018 12:43 am

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Sorry to hear that Aggie. Maybe she was secretly a Baylor or LSU fan so it’s for the best. Chin up old chap. X

She wasn't much of a college football fan. She was a Giants fan.  I even got her NY Giants socks for Christmas.  If that's not a sign of my dedication, I don't know what is.  

Ungrateful wench. And the Giants? Dear god...

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Post by Maddog on Wed Feb 07, 2018 12:45 am

Cass wrote:
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She wasn't much of a college football fan. She was a Giants fan.  I even got her NY Giants socks for Christmas.  If that's not a sign of my dedication, I don't know what is.  

Ungrateful wench. And the Giants? Dear god...

Whadaya gonna do. She's Brooklyn girl.

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Post by Cass on Wed Feb 07, 2018 1:00 am

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Ungrateful wench. And the Giants? Dear god...

Whadaya gonna do. She's Brooklyn girl.  

Well better than the Jets anyway.

Anyway here’s my take on Valentines Day. Since it’s my birthday I get pissed off about everything being so overpriced. We’ll be going to Denny’s and getting my free Grand Slam as usual plus 15% off as I’ve now enrolled with AARP. Mr. C is giddy with all the savings.



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Post by eddie on Wed Feb 07, 2018 1:34 am

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eddie wrote:Giving a man the blowjob of his life and expecting nothing back - a real sensual act of love.

Um...s'pose you you like giving back?


Then that’s fine, but sometimes it’s nice to give without needing to receive.
Give him a blowjob, cook him up a sausage sandwich and he’s good to go.

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Post by nicko on Wed Feb 07, 2018 1:47 am

You don't spit on his sandwich do you?
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nicko wrote:You don't spit on his sandwich do you?

Sausage in one hand...bone in the other. It's easy to mix 'em up. Laughing

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Letting her do the dishes, since she loves it so much I love you

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Ben Reilly wrote:Letting her do the dishes, since she loves it so much I love you

Dude, you in love with your dishwasher? I mean she is pretty and all. And efficient.

You should really learn how to unload her occasionally. Rolling Eyes

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