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A thruple of a married male couple and their girlfriend want to have kids

Post by eddie on Thu Jan 04, 2018 4:07 pm

Two men from New York added a woman into their relationship after meeting her online.

Chris, 38 and Matt Brandt, 28, from New York, have been together for 8 years and the two men invited Cait Earnest, 28 into a relationship after meeting her on a dating app in 2015. 

With all three now living together, they say they want to look into adopting children.




Chris, who identifies as bisexual asked Matt if he would be open to involving a woman in their relationship because he had never been with a woman before.

Chris explained: “Matthew had never had any experience with women before he’d met me. And before I met Matthew I had dated quite a few girls and quite a few guys.”

“I suggested to Chris, ‘How would you feel about involving a woman in some fashion?’”

While Matt was against the idea initially, he eventually got on board and they soon met Cait, who they immediately experienced a connection with.



Chris said: “The three of us started to spend more and more time together and after about seven or eight months she was staying over five nights a week.”

Cait and Chris both identify as bisexual, whereas Matt identifies as “homoflexible”, which he explained means that he is more attracted to men but open to being with women.

Chris explained “I guess I had an awakening after I had a sexual experience with a woman. It is just another body, another soul, a connection that I can have.”

Both Matt and Cait admitted to feeling jealous of the other, as they both pined for Chris’s attention. However, they told the Daily Mail that as their relationship grew they came to accept their own positions within it.

She also opened up about the thruple’s sex life, saying “I had never been with two people at the same time before. It’s different strokes for different folks but I would say it’s a pretty fun sex life.”

The thruple believe that any child would be “lucky” to have three parents, and said they are thinking about adopting their own in the future, however Matt did say that, for now, they are fine with their two dogs.

http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2017/11/22/this-thruple-of-two-men-and-a-woman-want-to-adopt-kids/

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Re: A thruple of a married male couple and their girlfriend want to have kids

Post by nicko on Thu Jan 04, 2018 6:21 pm

Wonder I they screw their dogs as well?
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Post by Maddog on Thu Jan 04, 2018 6:33 pm

eddie wrote:Two men from New York added a woman into their relationship after meeting her online.

Chris, 38 and Matt Brandt, 28, from New York, have been together for 8 years and the two men invited Cait Earnest, 28 into a relationship after meeting her on a dating app in 2015. 

With all three now living together, they say they want to look into adopting children.




Chris, who identifies as bisexual asked Matt if he would be open to involving a woman in their relationship because he had never been with a woman before.

Chris explained: “Matthew had never had any experience with women before he’d met me. And before I met Matthew I had dated quite a few girls and quite a few guys.”

“I suggested to Chris, ‘How would you feel about involving a woman in some fashion?’”

While Matt was against the idea initially, he eventually got on board and they soon met Cait, who they immediately experienced a connection with.



Chris said: “The three of us started to spend more and more time together and after about seven or eight months she was staying over five nights a week.”

Cait and Chris both identify as bisexual, whereas Matt identifies as “homoflexible”, which he explained means that he is more attracted to men but open to being with women.

Chris explained “I guess I had an awakening after I had a sexual experience with a woman. It is just another body, another soul, a connection that I can have.”

Both Matt and Cait admitted to feeling jealous of the other, as they both pined for Chris’s attention. However, they told the Daily Mail that as their relationship grew they came to accept their own positions within it.

She also opened up about the thruple’s sex life, saying “I had never been with two people at the same time before. It’s different strokes for different folks but I would say it’s a pretty fun sex life.”

The thruple believe that any child would be “lucky” to have three parents, and said they are thinking about adopting their own in the future, however Matt did say that, for now, they are fine with their two dogs.

http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2017/11/22/this-thruple-of-two-men-and-a-woman-want-to-adopt-kids/

It's a bit odd, but I'm not going to be too judgy. Live and let live.

I think they will probably be allowed to foster or even adopt an older child. If they are thinking about adopting an infant, they won't have much luck. I wonder if the chick "barren", or does she just not want to go through the hassle of being pregnant?

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Post by eddie on Thu Jan 04, 2018 6:56 pm

I don't care what anyone says, she has to favour one over the other and the same must apply to each man?

Someone will get hurt and I'm betting it'll be the 'reluctant' man of the group. Then eventually, her.


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Post by Maddog on Thu Jan 04, 2018 7:09 pm

eddie wrote:I don't care what anyone says, she has to favour one over the other and the same must apply to each man?

Someone will get hurt and I'm betting it'll be the 'reluctant' man of the group. Then eventually, her.


Probably. But that's sorta how it ends up for most swingers too I would think. Eventually someone gets more tired of the arrangement than another, and the whole thing unravels.


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Post by Cass on Thu Jan 04, 2018 7:31 pm

Whatever makes them happy.

I’ve been friends with a few polyamorous couples. Let’s just say that in each case it did not turn out well at all, regardless of signed agreements etc...

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Post by Syl on Thu Jan 04, 2018 7:35 pm

Its one of those rare threads when I cant really decide. 


If the choice is being in a home as unconventional as theirs is......or staying in the care system, I would probably opt for letting them foster.....not sure about adopting though.

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Post by eddie on Thu Jan 04, 2018 10:17 pm

Yeah I don't condemn them, each to their own really.
It's not for me though. I couldn't share my man with anyone but the people in a porn film...I don't mind them being in the room.

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Re: A thruple of a married male couple and their girlfriend want to have kids

Post by Jules on Fri Jan 05, 2018 12:28 am

Obviously they are both bisexual men. Strange setup! But then if it wasn't strange we wouldn't be discussing it lol.

In all love triangles [or sexual threesomes] I always feel  there's an element of coercion involved? IE the relationship starts off as a couple and one person in the couple wants a threesome more than the other one wants it, so the other one reluctantly goes along with it.

I'd tell him to sling his hook!!

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Post by Jules on Fri Jan 05, 2018 12:30 am

Adoption??
A child needs stability and this does not have the makings of a stable relationship.

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