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Post by eddie on Wed Nov 01, 2017 7:20 pm

Wow. A controversial and very interesting topic.






Perhaps one of the most controversial posts on the internet lately has been that of a blog by Fayzal Mahamed. In it, he publicly announces his actions in physically masturbating his disabled son and why he feels it is the best thing he can do for his therapy. Mahamed explains in a lengthy blog post why he has chosen to do so.
Mahamed’d son, Mustafa suffers from PIMD or Profound Intellectual Multiple Disabilities. He has severe disabilities that have left him unable to communicate or voluntarily move any of his muscles. He has an estimated IQ well below 20 and is basically bed-ridden if it weren’t for his father’s care.

Mahamed explains that from around the time Mustafa was 17, he noticed his son would get erections during bath time and through regular therapeutic massages. It triggered Mahamed to start researching on sexual functions and disabilities.

What Mahamed found in his research was a lot of hush-hush and brick walls. He explained that there wasn’t a lot of help out there for people in his situation.

In the beginning, Mahamed was confused and overwhelmed with caring for his son but felt as though there must be something he could do. “As a father who understood sexual behavior, I knew that my son was trying to express his sexual feelings because of the arousal that was happening around his body and that this sexual behavior was no different than most teenagers encounter after puberty in their personal sexual development,” Mahamed wrote.

Mahamed writes his biggest wall that was encountered came by way of fear in others. He states the issue itself is rarely discussed because it’s feared. “There is a taboo in discussing general sexual matters such as masturbation in society and this attitude gets aggravated in the discussion of sexuality of persons with disability,” he states.

More on link: http://hiptoro.com/man-masturbates-profoundly-disabled-son-explains/


Seems he isn't the only one either: http://www.news24.com/Drum/Archive/father-admits-on-radio-to-masturbating-his-disabled-son-20170728


Many people on social media are saying this man is using his son as an excuse to be a pervert, others are saying it's wonderful.

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Post by Tommy Monk on Wed Nov 01, 2017 7:40 pm

Oh dear...



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Post by HoratioTarr on Wed Nov 01, 2017 7:41 pm

And to what end?   I mean what is the point?  Does it have some profound medical effect on his son?  Is this done with his son's consent?   Can the son even give consent?   Sounds more to do with the father than the son.  Which is very unhealthy.
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Post by Angry Andy on Wed Nov 01, 2017 8:14 pm

HoratioTarr wrote:And to what end?   I mean what is the point?  Does it have some profound medical effect on his son?  Is this done with his son's consent?   Can the son even give consent?   Sounds more to do with the father than the son.  Which is very unhealthy.
Cannot speak for women, but that final release feels bloody wonderful.
Even in his impaired condition, he will feel good.

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Post by eddie on Wed Nov 01, 2017 8:37 pm

Well yes Andy, it feels bloody awesome for a woman too, but I am sort of with Horatio on this. Who is this actually for, the father or the son? I'm wondering about the son's consent too.

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Post by nicko on Wed Nov 01, 2017 9:25 pm

Be better if he got a female to do it,..........Prostitute?
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Post by Tommy Monk on Wed Nov 01, 2017 10:21 pm

Maybe the mother should be 'sorting out' the son... and father should be 'sorting out' the disabled daughter...!?


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Post by magica on Wed Nov 01, 2017 11:14 pm

I doubt he's being a perv, but I do think its really not what he should be doing.
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Post by Jules on Wed Nov 01, 2017 11:51 pm

Deviant behaviour. He's crossed a line.

Did he follow the tradition of marrying his own first cousin? That's perverted too, imo.

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Post by Syl on Thu Nov 02, 2017 12:15 am

nicko wrote:Be better if he got a female to do it,..........Prostitute?

I know a man who hired a prostitute for his badly disabled son, it was a succes and she became a regular visitor
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This is one subject that does seem to be taboo for many people.
I think if the son has obvious sexual urges its helpful for someone to aid him.
I think the dad has the right idea, but it definately should not be him that services his son in this way.

Maybe this service should be provided in a care package for severe cases.

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Post by WhoseYourWolfie on Thu Nov 02, 2017 9:29 am

nicko wrote:
Be better if he got a female to do it,..........Prostitute?

Smile

I agree that a female should be doing it...

Not necessarily a prostitute --  a well-intentioned friend or a willing nurse/carer/assistant, with her mind in the right place, might be cheaper..

And, that's assuming he's showing sexual urges/responses/satisfaction  --  otherwise, then there's the issue of sexual "harassment" or coercion, if he didn't actually need sexual activity  ?

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Post by nicko on Thu Nov 02, 2017 11:05 am

Is he showing sexual urges, Babies get erections !
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Post by magica on Thu Nov 02, 2017 1:50 pm

True Nicko, the more I read this the more I think its a bit sick. What if he was a girl, will they do it her as well.

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Post by HoratioTarr on Thu Nov 02, 2017 2:05 pm

nicko wrote:Is he showing sexual urges,   Babies get erections !


A man wakes up in the morning with one...that doesn't necessarily mean he wants sex.   The physiology of this boy's body is what is working not necessarily his mind lusting after sex.
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Post by nicko on Thu Nov 02, 2017 3:48 pm

You should see the erection on my cat, and he don't care who's watching, he still licks it ! Laughing
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Post by magica on Thu Nov 02, 2017 4:42 pm

nicko wrote:You should see the erection on my cat,    and he don't care who's watching,   he still licks it ! Laughing

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Post by Syl on Thu Nov 02, 2017 6:22 pm

magica wrote:True Nicko, the more I read this the more I think its a bit sick. What if he was a girl, will they do it her as well.

Something's are best left alone.

Its not as clear cut as it sounds....for one a female would not be obviously aroused so it would be different.
I just think many badly disabled people still get sexual urges, they are denied enough in life, if they cant manage to satisfy themselves, as this man obviously cant, should they just be ignored or met in a humane way?

I definately don't think its a job for his parent though.

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Post by Guest on Thu Nov 02, 2017 7:28 pm

No don't like this at all - his son has no way of giving consent .

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Post by eddie on Thu Nov 02, 2017 8:00 pm

Okay a guy will get a hard on even if he dreams about cheesecake or motorbikes, it's a physical thing. So this guy may just be getting erections which have bollocks-all to do with getting aroused.

Sorry but it seems really just, yuck.

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Post by Tommy Monk on Thu Nov 02, 2017 8:09 pm

Syl wrote:
nicko wrote:Be better if he got a female to do it,..........Prostitute?

I know a man who hired a prostitute for his badly disabled son, it was a succes and she became a regular visitor
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This is one subject that does seem to be taboo for many people.
I think if the son has obvious sexual urges its helpful for someone to aid him.
I think the dad has the right idea, but it  definately should not be him that services his son in this way.

Maybe this service should be provided in a care package for severe cases.


I know a fella (up this pub I go to sometimes) who has cerebral palsy, about 10 yrs younger than me, he has always had a job of some sort, he's not a severe case, but his speech is a bit difficult for him and he normally walks a bit awkwardly and in a way that is clearly visible that he has the condition (although he sometimes does an 'Oasis/Liam Gallagher' type walk for a laugh, and while doing it, he glides along quite cool looking and in a way that doesn't display any sign of CP condition, I've tried to get him to do it all the time!).


Anyway... he's a great character, loves a beer & a laugh & joke etc, and I've always got on well with him & had a good laugh with him etc...


Was about 15 yrs ago I stopped up the pub for a pint... sitting with him and a couple good friends I stopped to meet... having a laugh & joke etc... subject turned to women and sex... I think a couple of nice girls came in and we all turned to have a little look... but CP friend was frothing at the mouth looking at them... to which we all noticed, and I said to him that he looked like he was gagging for a shag, he said he was well gagging for it as he hadn't ever done it before, not even anything close...!


So I said he needed to have a sort out, and suggested he visited a well known local knocking shop... he started thinking about it for a little while, with a big grin... but then a bit of nervousness/fear/embarrassment slipped into his mind, and he started saying he couldn't do it...


But I could see how much he really wanted to go... and I knew it would do him 'a world of good' if he did... that I said that I would drive him up there, right then, and go in the place with him, and do all the talking up there, so he could just walk in the place with me and then go straight into a bedroom with the girl of his choice, and straight down to 'doing the do'...


The big grin reappeared on his face... and he thought about it some more...


(To be continued... let me know if any of you want to know what happened...? Got to go for a bit... dinner's ready!)


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Post by Lord Foul on Thu Nov 02, 2017 9:56 pm

nicko wrote:You should see the erection on my cat,    and he don't care who's watching,   he still licks it ! Laughing


and with that cat tongue too.... affraid

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Post by nicko on Thu Nov 02, 2017 10:12 pm

I wondered why he shuddered once or twice.
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Post by Syl on Thu Nov 02, 2017 11:14 pm

Tommy Monk wrote:
Syl wrote:

I know a man who hired a prostitute for his badly disabled son, it was a succes and she became a regular visitor
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This is one subject that does seem to be taboo for many people.
I think if the son has obvious sexual urges its helpful for someone to aid him.
I think the dad has the right idea, but it  definately should not be him that services his son in this way.

Maybe this service should be provided in a care package for severe cases.


I know a fella (up this pub I go to sometimes) who has cerebral palsy, about 10 yrs younger than me, he has always had a job of some sort, he's not a severe case, but his speech is a bit difficult for him and he normally walks a bit awkwardly and in a way that is clearly visible that he has the condition (although he sometimes does an 'Oasis/Liam Gallagher' type walk for a laugh, and while doing it, he glides along quite cool looking and in a way that doesn't display any sign of CP condition, I've tried to get him to do it all the time!).


Anyway... he's a great character, loves a beer & a laugh & joke etc, and I've always got on well with him & had a good laugh with him etc...


Was about 15 yrs ago I stopped up the pub for a pint... sitting with him and a couple good friends I stopped to meet... having a laugh & joke etc... subject turned to women and sex... I think a couple of nice girls came in and we all turned to have a little look... but CP friend was frothing at the mouth looking at them... to which we all noticed, and I said to him that he looked like he was gagging for a shag, he said he was well gagging for it as he hadn't ever done it before, not even anything close...!


So I said he needed to have a sort out, and suggested he visited a well known local knocking shop... he started thinking about it for a little while, with a big grin... but then a bit of nervousness/fear/embarrassment slipped into his mind, and he started saying he couldn't do it...


But I could see how much he really wanted to go... and I knew it would do him 'a world of good' if he did... that I said that I would drive him up there, right then, and go in the place with him, and do all the talking up there, so he could just walk in the place with me and then go straight into a bedroom with the girl of his choice, and straight down to 'doing the do'...


The big grin reappeared on his face... and he thought about it some more...


(To be continued... let me know if any of you want to know what happened...? Got to go for a bit... dinner's ready!)


Yes let us know what happened Tommy, it doesnt have to be too graphic Cool

Some prostitutes specialise in helping men with disabilities, one reason why I think it should be an organised legal occupation, or rather an occupation where men can openly visit legally.

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Well... he was thinking about it and grinning/giggling away again... but again he ended up saying 'nah, I don't think I could do it'...


'Why not? What's stopping you?' I asked... then I added 'There's nothing to worry about or be embarrassed about or afraid of... you just said how much you'd like to 'do the business' with a hot chick... and this is a golden opportunity for you to be doing it... we can leave now, be walking into the place in 10 mins, and just a couple mins after that you would be in bed with a naked hot chick and getting sorted right out!'.


'And...' I said, '...I'll tell you what... I'll even pay for it for you!'


'Alright, let's go!!!' was his enthusiastic reply...!!!


'Oh no!' I thought... I didn't really think he would say 'yes'... but I had laid down the offer... and he did take it... so I had to live up to my word and go through with it!


So off we went... got there... went in... I spoke to the girls there and quietly tried to haggle a cheap 'quickie' deal to save me a few quid, saying he was very inexperienced and wouldn't need long and he'd probably 'shoot his beans' while she was putting the condom on him...


But I shit you not... the boy done good... he was in there with her for fukkin ages...!!!


It must have been about half an hour went by... then the sitting room door where I was waiting opened slowly... and his girl staggered in looking totally ravished/exhausted, holding on to the wall for support... hair everywhere and all sweaty and red flushed... she looked more like she had just run the London marathon than just had a shag... she was still puffing and panting as she said to me 'I thought you said he wouldn't be up for much... but I'll tell you what... he was going for gold in there!!!'


Then he walked in after... looking hot and sweaty and worn out too... but with the biggest smile you could ever imagine seeing on someones face!!!


And I immediately knew that it was definitely a 40 quid well spent... as the experience and happiness gained from it was priceless!!!


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Post by Guest on Fri Nov 03, 2017 10:14 pm

eddie wrote:Okay a guy will get a hard on even if he dreams about cheesecake or motorbikes, it's a physical thing. So this guy may just be getting erections which have bollocks-all to do with getting aroused.

Sorry but it seems really just, yuck.
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Well... he was thinking about it and grinning/giggling away again... but again he ended up saying 'nah, I don't think I could do it'...


'Why not? What's stopping you?' I asked... then I added 'There's nothing to worry about or be embarrassed about or afraid of... you just said how much you'd like to 'do the business' with a hot chick... and this is a golden opportunity for you to be doing it... we can leave now, be walking into the place in 10 mins, and just a couple mins after that you would be in bed with a naked hot chick and getting sorted right out!'.


'And...' I said, '...I'll tell you what... I'll even pay for it for you!'


'Alright, let's go!!!' was his enthusiastic reply...!!!


'Oh no!' I thought... I didn't really think he would say 'yes'... but I had laid down the offer... and he did take it... so I had to live up to my word and go through with it!


So off we went... got there... went in... I spoke to the girls there and quietly tried to haggle a cheap 'quickie' deal to save me a few quid, saying he was very inexperienced and wouldn't need long and he'd probably 'shoot his beans' while she was putting the condom on him...


But I shit you not... the boy done good... he was in there with her for fukkin ages...!!!


It must have been about half an hour went by... then the sitting room door where I was waiting opened slowly... and his girl staggered in looking totally ravished/exhausted, holding on to the wall for support... hair everywhere and all sweaty and red flushed... she looked more like she had just run the London marathon than just had a shag... she was still puffing and panting as she said to me 'I thought you said he wouldn't be up for much... but I'll tell you what... he was going for gold in there!!!'


Then he walked in after... looking hot and sweaty and worn out too... but with the biggest smile you could ever imagine seeing on someones face!!!


And I immediately knew that it was definitely a 40 quid well spent... as the experience and happiness gained from it was priceless!!!


Laughing



You are a good mate Tommy.

Re the man in the OP, presumably he can be assessed mentally, there must be some indication of his mental state regarding his sexual needs.


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